Friendships from HealtheVoices

My social media platforms have been filled over the last few days with posts about HealtheVoices. The application deadline has been and gone. Yesterday people received their emails saying that they were accepted to HeV20 or were waitlisted or did not get in at all.

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It fills me with joy and sadness. Sadness because I made so many friends from HeV19 that I won’t be able to see this at HeV20. With my health the way it is there is no way I can make the long travel without health consequences and be able to enjoy the conference. I am really frustrated by my health and I have always been able to beat it, get on top of it but not this time.

I am so thankful to have been able to meet some wonderful people who have stayed in touch with me. They included me in their group conversations welcomed me into their fold and I just felt like one of the gang.

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I am excited though that thanks to modern technology and the wonders of prednisolone and predsomnia I will be able to log on and watch the HeV conference live from the comfort of my own bed.

My favourite moments from HeV19 were:

  • At the opening session being pulled up for wearing a matching “plaid” shirt. Thank you Gabriel Nathan. You are excused as we have so many more matchy things!!
  • Being given a mahoosive bag of swedish fish from Kathy who we actually ended up put on the same table too!!
  • Presenting about being a patient partner in the same session as the awesome Tonya Hegamin. Her books are brilliant.
  • Having the mick taken out of me for my breakfast choice but then getting a care package of “breakfast soup” socks from AnnMarie. Also lip syncing Spice Girls with her Brady and Robert too.
  • Meeting Scott White the company chairman of J and J and bonding over living with severe asthma!!
  • Meeting and being brought into their fold the baddest bunch of diabetics particularly those we went to In and Out Burger Tripp, Phyllis, Chelcie, Christel as well as Corinna, Sue, Kristen.
  • Getting some awesome headshots from Rick Guidotti and becoming a PEARLS Ambassador
  • Meeting the fantastic HeV team who go above and beyond to make sure every advocate is happy, healthy and comfortable.
  • Lastly spending some awesome time with Mike and Eileen in Dallas. Its not many people I would happily wander through a graveyard with- Eileen!!! I had such an awesome few days with you both and it topped off a great trip!!

For now I want to leave all these photos of friends I made and friends I will hopefully see again perhaps at HeV21 if I get in!!!

 

 

To my new family and my tribe #HealtheVoices19

Wow where do I start. It takes a lot for me to be left speechless but I am unable to put into words the emotion and feelings from this past weekend. It sounds a bit cringe to say but it has been truly life changing.

I have made so many new friends who I know will be friends for life.

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To all my new friends from HealtheVoices you all have no idea how much I have appreciated this weekend. The main reason for why it was such a big deal was in November I had a near fatal asthma attack. What was different about this asthma attack was that the asthma consultants were basically there right from the start of the attack. Then the ICU consultant told me if we didn’t turn the cornerstone we would be running out of options and I really needed to turn the corner ASAP. Thankfully I did turn the corner but the attack left me traumatised and I still am living in fear from it. I fear I may not be able to fight the next attack, I fear who will be with me if I have another attack and will they be able to cope. I was also terrified that I would not manage the flight. I know my family were really worried about me coming over on my own but I had to do it for me. I needed to be able to prove to myself I can do it.

Before I came out to Dallas I didnt know what I was going to do moving forward.

Asthma has cost me so much in life and it still does but being able to be among people who know what that fear is like and you don’t just pity each other or say “yeah I know what it is like” you answer it with comments about how you over came adversity and give ideas on how I might do the same. I also had to give up my job which I loved but despite this doors have opened and I will be moving on to great things and with the inspiration and motivation I have taken in from this weekend I will not be looking back.

The other great thing is that I know there is life beyond being ill and you can use your condition to better yourself and to better others as well. I may not be able to control my asthma and control my health but I can control what I do with it and use it to help make changes for others.

I feel so included in a very special group of people.

You guys are all my family and my tribe

x

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#HealtheVoices 2019

I am super excited and cannot remember if I posted about this before but now that everything is getting to the final stages and it is really going to happen I thought I would write a post all about this next exciting opportunity.

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HealtheVoices is not something I had heard. Fairly recently while looking on Twitter I came across them and the conferences they have done as well as the amazing patient advocacy. HealtheVoices provides a ground breaking leadership conference for those involved in advocacy for their own health conditions, the communities around them and others as well. The conference is to empower those in advocacy to continue the work they do and get as much impact as possible from it. They have been organising these conferences and this year it will be their 5th event.

I can’t remember applying for the conference or filling in the form so when I got an email in January asking me to be a speaker and lead a session I was shocked but also had a huge sense of pride that despite asthma dictating my life I have had so opportunities as a result of it which are truly once in a lifetime events.

The event this time is over in America. I fly to Dallas Texas in a weeks time and am so excited. I have never been to Texas and will have the chance to have a few days being a tourist out there to.

We have just got off possibly the biggest conference call I have been part of. I think there were 69 participants in total. Most of these people were members who are coming to the conference and not all speakers. They said there was well over 350 applicants so to be short listed to give a talk is probably one of my greatest achievements.

The one down side (if you can call it that) to this is I have had to 1) prepare what I am going to say and 2) put together a power point presentation. Many who read this will know my aversion to slides and my slight aversion to preparing. As Allison would say I just like to wing it or busk it!!! For this though I cant. So I have put together some slides myself which I think look ok just waiting on the legal team to give them the ok! I have also written most of my talk. 45 minutes is a long time!!! I will be giving my talk a test run with my Mum so fingers crossed that goes well, may even run it by my little brother too depending how brave I am!!!

Public speaking is something I have grown into. A good friend of mine and PPI colleague Elisabeth likes to recall the story of when we first met when I was so shy and quiet that she struggled to hear me speak. Now she struggles to get me to shut up!!! With every talk I give I can feel my comfort with speaking grow. I still get very nervous at certain events and was so thankful on some occasions that I have had a lectern  to stand behind because my legs were shaking so much but on the whole I feel ok when I am speaking.

I am so proud to be able to go and share my story and tell others about how great being involved in research is, all the different things you can do and how to get involved. I am also teaming up with webMD too which will be awesome as they have a huge online platform.

Will be tweeting and blogging from the conference if there is time although it seems like a jam packed program. The conference will be streamed live so will post the link for this when I know it. Remember though there is a time difference!!!